Compassionate Connection

This blog is the first in a year-long series where I will co-author blogs with various other professionals. This time I have teamed up with a fantastic couple therapist, Robin Temple, MA, MSW. We run Compassionate Connection, a coaching/counseling group for romantic partners who want more harmony and joy together, and at least one partner […]

Holidays 2021 – Be Prepared!

We are about to enter many people’s favorite time for the year – from Thanksgiving to New Year. I get it; being thankful, appreciating friends, family, and other blessings you may have in your life, good cheer toward humanity, hopefulness about the upcoming year. All good things!   But not all people love everything about this […]

A Paradox That Works: ADHD and Mindfulness

Mindfulness is a practice of becoming more present to the here and now. It seems to be a paradox to talk about ADHD and Mindfulness, but ADHD is full of paradoxes. Being mindful is a skill that can be practice and improved. As it is practiced throughout the day, you learn to pay attention to […]

Shifting Negative Self-Talk

What story are you telling yourself that isn’t supporting you to be who you truly are?  I have a funny, enthusiastic, smart client who is full of shame over things she knows aren’t worth the stress and overwhelm it causes her. For example, she was telling herself that she was a disgusting person when dishes […]

Parents – What your teen really needs for going back to school!

School sucked. Maybe your teen feels the same way. That feeling stayed with me until college. The school was challenging and overwhelming because it was not (and is not) set up for students who have uniquely wired brains. Thankfully, I figured out what worked for me. It isn’t the same for everyone. What works for […]

Unmasking: Life After COVID for the Neurodiverse

As we start to unmask and move towards a post-COVID life, we should be thinking about what that means for us personally. Neurodiverse people have unique brain wiring which allows us to see the world in our own way. While this may have challenges in navigating through life, it can be a true blessing.  It […]

Should Your Child Repeat This School Year?

If there was ever a time to repeat the school year, now is the time. My daughters were young for their grade with summer birthdays. I always thought if we ever move, I would have them repeat whatever grade they were in at the time. It never happened. I would never have done that to […]

What Gets Entrance into Your Life?

Over two weeks ago, I said goodbye to most social media.  Here is why I did so and why I think you might want to as well.  I believe that technology should be used as a tool to make life easier and less stressful, much in the same way that I use the shredding blade […]

Harmony During COVID

Working, personal life, and taking care of children keeps most of us busy regularly. As COVID lingers on, many are becoming more stressed and overwhelmed if you throw in some executive function challenges that takes it to a whole new level of overwhelming.  You can bring some harmony to your home and your life. Here […]

Compassionate Connection

Happy New Year’s! Have you failed in your resolutions yet?  I have found that my clients often want to develop too many new habits. The New Year is a clean slate that allows people to start over from fresh is often the general belief. While that is partly true, it is not the whole truth. […]